Sunday, January 23, 2011

What is the difference between being alone and lonely?

Who can answer this question for me? What is the difference between being alone and being lonely when you are married? I have been pondering this question for some time now and I have no clue. Well..not quite true I do know the difference but I guess I want I really want to know is what each person's definition of this question means to them. To me, being alone is you don't have anyone in your life that you can count on, talk to, or even depend on. So is being lonely just the opposite? What do you do when you are feeling lonely? Who do you turn to? Is it your best friend? Your family? Your co-worker? Your spouse? or someone you happen to find that fills that missing void in your life and it develops into something more than you can handle? For some of us it's the later of all situations. Is it sad that you turn to someone else? I don't know...

What is soul mate?

Love at first site. Is he my soul mate? I believe deep in my heart I have found my soul mate and true love. This hasn't been easy; in fact it has come with some tough times and most recently some heartache. You know you have found your soul mate when even after you have just felt as though your whole world has come crashing down and you still love him and want to be with him.  That is where I am right now.

I cannot picture my life without my love even though I am angry and hurt more than words can describe. I love him with all my heart and soul. Even the strongest of all marriages, or even the strongest willed individual will make choices in their life that they regret. So what does soul mate mean to me? Being able to forgive and love unconditionally even when you want to hurt him but at the same time don't want to be without him.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Unwanted changes

Why can't people or companies just leave a good thing alone? Nothing frustrates me more than learning something and then have to re-learn it because somebody decided to change the order. Let's take facebook for example...I liked the old look and then they changed it to make it better, got used to it and then they change it again. At first glance it was cool until I try to make changes. It can't just be my computer constantly freezing up whenever I want to load a video, pics or simple status updates on facebook. Log out and sign in is making me crazy!!!

Have you experienced my frustrations?

Friday, August 28, 2009

Getting out of my comfort zone

I am getting out of my comfort zone and utilizing iGoogle. This is the coolest thing and I can kick myself in the butt for not using this tool sooner. No more sticky notes all over the place, no more writing notes everywhere and hunting them down when I need it. I am not that old but I like being comfortable and sometimes procrastinate on change. We all need to get out of our comfort zone and embrace change. It's here and it's not going away!!

What is BlogThis! ? - Blogger Help

This is my blog post!!

I am looking for a great website design for my domain

Creating websites are difficult. I just purchased a domain name and I want to start my own online business. Isn't that the reason people buy domain names? I think so but then I could be wrong. There are so many sites out there that offer free services but which one do you choose? Which one will get you noticed? Getting noticed is a big thing these days. Everybody wants to be first on a search engine page and they want to get there as inexpensively as possible. Free is my thing. If you are like me, you don't have extra funds just laying around. Need some help. Any advice?

How I Started My First Blog

I thought I was pretty "tech savvy" but boy there are lots of things out there that I am ignorant to. Take blogging for example. I heard about it, read a few blogs and even posted my first blog several months ago with no success. So I did what every one who doesn't know how to do something...I googled it! There are good information out there and I don't know what I will do without the Internet. I know people blog about everything and anything that they can think of. For someone like me, I was a bit scared and nervous. I didn't want to sound stupid. Has anyone else felt the same way? I work in the Real Estate industry and part of my job is to provide information on how to market themselves using social media outlets. If you have ever worked in a real estate office you know that most agents do not like change. But as the old saying goes, "Nothing is constant but change". So here it is, my blog.